Pat dry the tuna: Use paper towels to dry the tuna steaks well. This helps you get a great sear.
Make the marinade: In a small bowl, mix sesame oil, tamari or coconut aminos, vinegar, ginger, garlic, salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes if using.
Coat the tuna: Brush the marinade over both sides of the tuna.
Let it sit for 5–10 minutes while you heat the pan.
Press on sesame seeds: Spread sesame seeds on a plate. Press the tuna into the seeds to coat both sides evenly.
Heat the pan: Set a heavy skillet (cast iron or stainless) over medium-high heat. Add avocado oil and let it shimmer.
Sear the tuna: Place the steaks in the pan.
Cook 45–90 seconds per side for rare to medium-rare. For medium, go up to 2 minutes per side. Avoid overcooking to keep it tender.
Rest and slice: Transfer to a cutting board and rest 2 minutes.
Slice against the grain if you want thin strips, or serve whole.
Finish and serve: Squeeze fresh lemon or lime over the top and sprinkle green onions. Serve with a light salad or sautéed bok choy.